Wednesday, February 28, 2007

The truth about the past


Some idealists said that if u're truly in love with a person, then his/her past would not matter. What matters the most is your future together. Ah.. how love is so beautiful. But, is it true that the past really doesn't matter?

I had a chat with a friend last nite, talking bout my last holiday to Bangkok. There, I went to see the lady boy show and it was marvellous. All the showgirls er.. boys.. were really pretty. Just like perfect girls. Then I popped out one question to my friend: Hey, if u had a girlfriend, and u really fell in love with her and thought that her past wouldn't matter to you... how bout if suddenly she said, "Darling... i want to be honest with u 'bout my past. I used to be a guy..."
Whoa!!!
Ha ha.. i think this example is a bit too extreme. But now, with the advancement of medical technology, such thing is possible rite?

Well, back to the title. Just think of something that would bother u most. Let's just say, U had a boyfriend/girlfriend who once was a serious drug addict or once been in prison, and he/she revealed it to u after u hv completely truly madly deeply in love with him/her. What would u do? would u still love him/her as before, accept him/her as he/she is? Or would u rethink of your relationship coz probably something he/she had done in the past would happen again in the future?


-tania-

7 comments:

Anonymous said...

Your example is way too extreme Tan Hehehe.........

Well I'll try to say what I think, I used to think that When I got married than my wife must be virgin. But Right Now I'm deeply in LOve with someone that she's not virgin anymore. In fact she always do 'the thing' with all of her boyfriend.
When she told me about that, honestly I'm shocked and I just dont wanna see her anymore.
But I cannot deny my feeling, n up until now I still in love with her, although she still belong to someone else hehehehe........
Well I think the only matters is the future, everybody has their own past, we have to try to accept their past, accept her as she is.
The past is the past, just let it behind, let see the future

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